contrary to popular belief, moving does not mean pushing away the situation, or the person, from which you are trying to vacate yourself from. it does not entail becoming harsh and cold, growing frost over your heart and never loving again. you do not have to be withdrawn and bitter to say that you have moved on. all moving on means is being able to reminisce fondly on the good times and learn from the bad. it is allowing yourself to stay in a room with someone without bursting into tears. moving on is accepting what is for what is and not trying to change it. moving on, my friend, is the hardest thing to do. and if you have the courage to remain gentle and open after being brutally broken, then you deserve a love deeper than the ocean itself.